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Last Minute Halloween Costumes for the Whole Family

Happy almost Halloween! Are you excited to dress up? My kiddos LOVE to play dress-up all year round, so Halloween is an extra special treat because we go all out as a family! The thing is, this year has been a little crazy for us. If you aren’t ready for Halloween, don’t worry! You aren’t alone. I’ve pulled together several costumes for the whole family – many that can ship same day or by the 31st. 

Not all sizes are available for super fast shipping – so make sure to pay attention to the sizes and availability while you look at the options below. Also, look at the shipping options in the checkout screen – and if you have PRIME – you may even have an advantage. Some costumes even had coupons that you can “clip” with a click of your mouse – and who doesn’t like a couple extra dollars off? I hope this quick roundup helps prepare you for some Halloween fun! Yay! xo

Homemade Lavender Bath Bombs

If you love bath bombs, this craft is for you! I love pretty much anything that I can do easily with my kiddos. This is a really fun activity that you can do on your own (perfect to give as gifts), or do with young kids. My children are 3 and 5, and this is really easy to do with them. I made this batch of pumpkin shaped bath bombs with Sofia (3 years old) and she did fantastic! It’s messy (lots of powder) but easy to clean up and super fun! They also smell lovely, and if you make them in the morning, they should be ready to use as part of your bedtime bath routine. Keep scrolling for a lot more photos, the recipe and instructions to make these cute bath bombs! Enjoy and let me know how it goes! 

Ingredients

  • 1/2 Cup Baking Soda
  • 1/4 Cup Corn Starch
  • 1/4 Cup Citric Acid
  • 1 Tsp Olive Oil
  • Lavender Essential Oil (About 20 drops depending on how strong you want it)
 

Tools

  • Mixing bowl
  • Mixing spool or spatula 
  • Spray water bottle (if you have one)
  • Silicone baking molds or other molds to shape your bath bombs
 

Instructions

  1. Combine the Baking Soda, Citric Acid, and Corn Starch in a bowl. Mix well with the spoon or spatula. 
  2. Add 1 tsp Olive Oil and about 20 drops of lavender oil to the mixture add more or less depending on your preference). I like to use the spatula to combine it most of the way, and then use my hands to ensure it’s really thoroughly mixed.
  3. If you have a spray bottle, fill it with water and spritz the mixture 1-2 times, them mix with your hands. Spray 1-2 times more and keep mixing with your hands. It doesn’t take much moisture to make the mixture moldable. If you use too much water at once, it’ll fizz up and won’t be the right texture. We didn’t have a spray bottle, so I used 1-2 tiny drops of water from a cup. It worked well but I went extremely slow with the water. You’ll be surprised at how little you actually need. 
  4. When you can tell the texture it moldable (another reason mixing with your hands is a big win), pack the mixture into the molds as tightly as you can.  We used pumpkin molds for Fall, but you can honestly use whatever you have on hand. I like that you can have fun and make different shapes based on the season or holiday.
  5. Let the bath bombs dry in the molds for 5-6 hours or overnight. Gently pop them out of the molds and store in an airtight container. 
  6. Use 1 bath bomb per bath (warm water) and enjoy! The lavender is so soothing and the fizzing is fun! My kiddos LOVE this activity and the bath time fun once they are done. Yay!

Preloved Makes the World Go Round

Ok mommas, I’m sharing something that I’m pretty excited about! Who has kiddos who grow out of their clothing way too fast? You do? Me too!!! That being said, I like a good deal on things for my kids because I have no idea how long they will actually be worn. New items are always fun but can cost a lot, and aren’t great for camp, activities, play dates and school. I love getting something a little special for family photos, holidays, birthdays, things of that nature. But what about all the other days of the year that require functional yet cute clothes for our kids??? I have the ultimate solution. A solution that simplifies the whole process, saves money, time and helps keep your kids in clothes that are cute and actually fit! Kids on 45th. 

Someone very wise once said, “I love it when someone else pays full price first.” I could not agree more! Preloved clothing is something I’ve always loved for myself, and now love for my kids. To find a fantastic deal on the brands I love is always a big win! Shopping preloved can be a huge hassle though. Not everyone lives near a good store that sells high quality and good condition preloved kids clothing. It can be a tall order. Even then, you need to find the time to go and pick through everything. 

Kids on 45th makes the whole process A LOT easier! They do all the sourcing and are SUPER picky about what they accept. We’re talking no fading, pilling, stains or wear. They only accept items that are in excellent used or like-new condition, which makes it pretty easy to love what they have to offer!

Kids on 45th is a momma-owned and operated company with a physical retail store in Seattle! They recently launched a subscription box service where parents can order custom quantities of what they need (and want) for their kiddos. You buy what you need based on how your kid is growing. That means if you don’t need any pants, but you are in desperate need of shorts and tshirts, that is what you can order! 

The subscription box is 4 times a year, based on the changing seasons, which is when we all realistically start looking for things like swimsuits and shorts for the Spring/Summer, jackets and pants for Fall/Winter, and those other necessary items to fill in the gaps. The current seasonal schedule is March, June, August and November, but you can always request a date change – or add a shipment mid-season (growth spurts happen whenever they want). 

I got to try Kids on 45th first hand and let me tell you, I’m sold. Gabe has a couple pairs of jeans that still fit, and it’s Summer, so I requested clothes for him that I knew he needed like shorts and tshirts. I also asked for no characters because they are pretty strict at school, and I think it’s easier to mix and match clothing without characters on them. Sofia on the other hand needed leggings (which I put under her dresses a lot), shorts and cute Summer tops. What did I get??? A fantastic selection of kids clothes for a deal! I mean 14 items for under $50 is AMAZING! I didn’t wait for a major sale, I didn’t have to search for coupon codes, I didn’t have to go dig through clothes hoping to find something cute in their size…I didn’t even have to go to the store! They did it for me! 🙂 

Gabe now has some super cute shirts and shorts that I can mix and match any day of the week. They are so cute that they work for more than camp and school – they are perfect for a family meal out as well! Sofia now has Summer clothes that fit her, and she can play in style and comfort. I’m so beyond happy that this subscription box exists because it’s something I actually NEED! You can see the actual box of clothes that I opened up by scrolling down. I was SO excited to get this in the mail!

The image below is of the letter that came with my box. It shows what I ordered (based on what I truly needed for my kids), as well as what was saved by purchasing preloved clothing. Because most of the clothes are preloved, the boxes are full of clothes that are not only super cute, and a fantastic price, but they are also good for the environment! Yup…this tree hugging mommy is a huge fan of that aspect. 

It’s always great to do something good for the environment – and this is something great that you can do while getting what you need for your family…AND it sets a great example for the kiddos! We talk to our kids a lot about recycling, composting, and saving energy. This is a really fun way to show them that every new thing takes energy to make, and every preloved item we use helps save the planet. Yup! Another reason why I’m sold on Kids on 45th! 🙂

So how do you give this a try? Excellent question! Click HERE to get started! You’ll fill in some basic info, and then start to build your box. We received Summer items, which we needed, but my next box will be full of back to school items and I am SO excited. Gabe is starting kindergarten at the end of August, so a back to school wardrobe for him will be needed. It’s also fun because the items are a surprise! I get the final say in terms of what my kids NEED (pants, long sleeved shirts, etc.) – but the box comes with brands and styles that are a surprise for my kiddos (and me)! It’s a lot of fun and makes it feel pretty special for my ever growing children! 

The clothing shown on my kiddos in this post are all from Kids on 45th. You can see how fun and versatile they are – and how easy it will be to mix and match with the other items in the box – as well as items that we already own. Another win for mommy! You can see the basic breakdown (price per item) below – which shows you what a full wardrobe box would look like. I mean a swimsuit for $3.50 and not at the END of the season? Yes please!

Ok…I’ve given you all the details so now it’s up to you to check it out! I’m not kidding around when I say it’s worth it. I hope this was helpful and am more than happy to answer questions about my experience with Kids on 45th. Please visit my Instagram, follow me for more fun stuff, and DM me with any questions! 🙂 I’m excited about this momma owned company and LOVE what they are doing. Kids grow – and they grow fast! They all need clothes for the seasons, and they all have growth spurts. Hopefully this will give you a budget friendly way to keep up with your cutie pies! Enjoy! Muah!

Birthday Dreams On A Budget

“Live for moments you can’t put into words.” There is so much truth to this quote, I can’t even explain it. My kids are growing up so fast, that all I want is for time to slow down so I can take it all in! Making memories doesn’t have to be expensive or elaborate. Making memories can be as simple as being in the moment and having a good laugh with your family. 

Today I’m sharing some tips and ideas that are simple and can still make special birthday dreams come true. You can make memories that will last and not break the bank. Be with those you love and enjoy playing, laughing and the moment at hand. Keep scrolling for a short list of ideas that will make any birthday child feel special – and will create lasting lovely memories for the whole family! 

I’ve also linked similar outfits (pink tulle, birthday crown, etc.) if you want to shop our look. We took this photo a week ago today, on Sofia’s actual 3rd birthday. She wanted to dress up as a princess for her birthday and I was happy to make that happen! My pink tulle dress has been worn and used in several photos with Sofia since she was born, so I’ve definitely gotten my full value! 🙂 

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Tips & Ideas

  • Send an e-card: You don’t need to pay for invitations. Almost everyone has email these days, so an e-card is an easy, cute and affordable way to invite friends and family to your bday celebration. Some of my favorites are evite and paperless post. For those who don’t have email (for example, older family members), give them a call to say hello and give them the birthday details. You can also write a letter which is more personal and still cost effective.
  • Try to plan the party at times when full meals will not be expected. For example, 9-11am for young kids who nap, or 1:30-4pm for kids who don’t nap anymore. You can still have snacks and cake, but a full meal won’t be expected. Also, kids birthdays don’t need to last all day. Keep it to a couple of hours so it is manageable and not overwhelming. If you do want to include more food, do a pot luck! It’s fun and gets your friends and family involved, while keeping costs down!
  • Go to the dollar store or look online for a deal on party supplies. You can get balloons and other fun decorations for a deal! I found a great birthday bundle online with free shipping and beautiful decorations that made Sofia’s eyes light up! It was under $12 and came with pom poms, a banner, hanging decorations and more. I posted an image of the decorations I ordered above – and am so happy with my purchase!
  • Depending on the time of year, have the party at a playground. We picked a park that had a fantastic kids playground last year and it was under $30 to reserve the picnic tables through the park system. I called ahead and filled out the paperwork to ensure we had the tables reserved. You don’t have to reserve them, but other people will, so keep that in mind. Even if you show up early, someone else who reserves them has the right to take them from you. We used the tables for the cake, gifts, drinks, snacks, and for people to sit and take a rest. The playground is free and the kids have a blast running and playing on the equipment. It is a huge money saver and win for kids that are playground age!
  • If you have kids with birthdays that are close together, consider throwing one party for both of them. My kids are both July babies, so we do 1 party for both kids. We still do something special as a family on the actual day of their birthday, but 1 party is fun and saves us a lot of money and planning. It also makes sense when inviting friends and family, so you aren’t asking them to reserve 2 weekends and make the trip twice. You are combining things to make it easier on everyone! 🙂 There are lots of themes that work for boys and girls – so keep that in mind. You can go generic with a color scheme that fits both kids, or pick a kids TV show/movie that they both like. We threw a Paw Patrol party at the park last year and it was a big hit for both my kiddos!
  •  Make the cake yourself – or consider a cupcake cake! I’ve done both and it has worked out beautifully! Making your own cake (yes I used a boxed mix) is fun because I got the kids involved. For a more traditional cake, I got some little toys that were on theme (figurines that were cute and inexpensive) to use as decorations – and my kids got to keep them as toys after the party. You can also make cupcakes and frost them all on top so they have a flat surface. This method is a cupcake cake – which you can see here! I put two cupcake cake images (look above and below) to give you some ideas – the turtle and sunflower are both SO cute and easy to do! A cupcake cake will allow you to decorate the cake like a normal one if you want to (so you can write happy birthday), or make them into a fun shape – AND you won’t need anything to cut the cake because everyone can just take a cupcake from the bottom. It is a huge help when the party is at a venue like the park. No need for plates, forks, knives, etc. You’ll still need napkins though! 🙂 
 
  • Have your kiddos pick their favorite meal for their special day. This does NOT need to be part of the party. I let my kids pick their favorite meal for dinner on their birthday and it is always super special. If they are too young to say what their favorite is, pick based on what you believe their favorite is. I’m sure you know what meal they go crazy over – like pizza, spaghetti, pancakes, etc. Have fun with it! Maybe it means breakfast for dinner! How fun and memorable! 
  • Think about keeping the party small. You don’t have to do a huge gathering to have fun! Take photos, run and play, and make it memorable by actually playing with your kids! Having a ton of guests can also mean hosting and not really spending time as a family. My kids would rather run around and play with me than have a ton of guests and no quality time. Keep that in mind as you plan. You can have a great time without overdoing it with a huge gathering. Make it about quality time and being truly in the moment. Take some memorable photos and videos on your phone to share with them later on – so they can remember those precious moments or relive how fun it was to blow out the candles on their cake! 🙂
  • Have fun with party games! So many fun kids games have little or no cost! These are some fun examples: 
  • -Red light Green light
  • -Hot potato with a balloon (not helium) or something light like a squishy toy or ball
  • -Musical Chairs
  • -Red Rover
  • -Three-Legged Race
  • -Duck, Duck, Goose
  • -“Simon says”
  • -“I spy”
  • -A treasure hunt (use things you already own or paint rocks etc. and use them as clues (goodie bags or something fun like a treasure chest piñata can be the prize)

I hope these ideas help you to have a beautiful birthday party that makes your child’s dreams come true – while not breaking the bank! It is truly about making special memories and spending quality time together with the birthday child! xoxo

The Emotions of Parenting

Children…the little love bugs that make me the happiest person in the world and drive me absolutely crazy…usually in the same day! Do I love them with all my heart? Yes, unconditionally! Do they make me nuts sometimes? Absolutely, without a doubt! Being a mom is the most rewarding and exhausting thing I’ve ever done. It is a 24/7 job that has huge rewards, but is also taxing at times. Big emotions for parents and kids alike – the good and the bad.

Because I know I’m not alone, I want to share something that has helped our family. If you have kids, my guess is that you have lost your temper at some point or another. If not, I am super impressed and want to learn from you! My goal is to stay as zen as possible with my kids, but there are times when that feels impossible. We talk about our kids emotions so much, but parents emotions are important and effect our children a lot. 

Before sharing more, let me say two things. First, we have happy kiddos. Tantrums are normal and not fun – and even the happiest of kids have them. Second, we are not perfect parents. Kids are always growing and changing, and we’re learning as we go. We’re also human, so we have good and bad days, so we react the best we can on any given day. Our goal is to help our family to be happy and function in the best way possible, which sometimes means new rules. 

Our family recently went through a lot of changes. We moved, we bought a new house, our son graduated from preschool and knows he will be starting kindergarten soon, and my grandfather passed away. Our son does not do well with change, so this has been a turbulent time in our household. 

So many things can cause acting out in toddlers. Exhaustion, confusion, changes (like those listed above), and so much more. Adults have bad days, so why do we expect our toddlers not to? The difference is, we need to help our toddlers to deescalate and move towards a better remainder of the day.  

In our home there are great days where all is well and there is nothing but peace and harmony in our home. It sounds nuts, but those super productive, happy go lucky, no drama days do exist! Then there’s the opposite. On the drama days, it was hard to know what to do or how to act. I tried everything. Reasoning with my 4 year old toddler was usually a huge fail. Trying to negotiate was no better. Getting mad only made things worse. So…I went online and did some research while my husband asked some friends who have kiddos. 

What entered our lives was a book – a handy book with easy rules that have already started to help. 1, 2, 3 Magic is the title and I’m a big fan. The parent book isn’t long (my guess is I’m not the only one out there with limited free time to read), and there is a kids book which outlines the new rules of the house for your child/children. There’s a workbook as well, which is actually for the parents. We have not tried it yet but I want to share that it does exist if you’re looking for something interactive to help as you learn this method. 

Look…I’m a talker (huge surprise right?) – which doesn’t help with tantrums. I so badly want to reason with my kids but it doesn’t make it better! I don’t want to give in either, because it’s important to me that they don’t get what they want when they are acting out. At the end of the day, tantrums make our whole household very unhappy. This book has already helped to simplify things for our family, and with consistency, it’s giving us the tools to work with our very willful 4 year old son (and I’m sure our daughter as she gets older). 

Bottom line is, you are not alone. Toddlers are like tiny teens who think they know it all and demand what they want with irrational behavior, yelling and tears. It’s normal. We’re all in the same boat – and anyone who says they aren’t is lying! 😉 Books like this exist because parents all need the help – but most are too afraid to admit how crazy their toddler can get.

1, 2, 3 Magic is a worthwhile read for any parent of toddlers looking for a way to gain some sanity back, and have simple yet real tools that actually work in their household. Oh! And did I mention there’s helpful tools with simple rules for bedtime tantrums specifically? Yup! So…check out 1, 2, 3 Magic, share this post with others who you feel are in the same boat (sharing is caring) and please let me know what you think! Happy reading! 

Mother’s Day Gift Guide – Part 2

Mom life is something I didn’t understand until I was in it. To be honest, I thought I had it all figured out, until we had a second child. Now I live in a constant state of what I like to call – happy chaos! Haha! I know there are moms out there with more than 2 children – and I say – more power to you! I have no idea how you do it – but you’re amazing! 

Now to the good stuff…this coming Sunday is Mother’s Day! A lovely day to say a special thank you and show a little extra love to the moms in your life. Scroll down to find Part 2 of my Mother’s Day Gift Guide – organized by price point! My hope is to help any budget find a little something special for mom. Happy shopping! Muah!

Under $15

Under $30

Under $45

Special thanks to Dekker Photography for doing such a beautiful job documenting our family as it has grown over the years! This photo is about a year old – but it was a special moment with my family that I treasure. Thanks for reading and I hope you found something you love! xo

Mother’s Day Gift Guide

Mothers are a strong breed. They are full of unconditional love, life, rules, smiles, tickles, magic kisses, snacks, bandaids, patience, random toys in pockets and purses, and so much more!

For the moms in your life, this is a quick gift guide to help show the love. Keep scrolling for 3 categories of gifts that start under $10 and go up from there. Most of the items listed are on sale – and all of them are mom approved (since I’m a mom and think these items are the bees knees)! 😉 

My Mother’s Day Gift Guide Part 2 is in the works and broken down by price point. Keep an eye out! Don’t forget to order your gifts soon…Mother’s Day is coming up fast! Muah!

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A Little Sparkle

Spring Has Sprung

Spring has sprung and it’s time for a new, fun, family friendly craft! Be always blooming with this fun activity that is easy and you may already have the materials on hand! Keep scrolling for materials, a quick step by step, and lots of cute pics! Enjoy! Muah!

What You Need:

  • Paper cupcake liners in any color or pattern you like (or have on hand)
  • Construction paper
  • Scissors
  • Glue – liquid glue works best for this (not a glue stick)
  • Glitter – any color you have on hand works

What To Do:

Step 1: Cut your leaves and stems out of green construction paper. If you want to add some grass, cut a long strip the length of the paper and about 2″ wide – then make 1.5″ cuts all along the strip like blades of grass.

Step 2: Glue the grass, stems and leaves to another piece of construction paper. We used white but you can use whatever color you like. I think blue would be fun as well, to look like the sky.

Step 3: Glue the paper cupcake liners at the top of the stems to make your flowers. I only had one color liner (polka dots) but the inside was silver, so we glued one of them inside out for variety. It’s always nice to use what you have on hand.

Step 4: Put glue in the center of each cupcake liner – aka – flower. You’ll need enough liquid glue to hold the glitter (see step 5).

Step 5: Cover the glue with glitter! This can be a little messy but it is pretty easy to clean up and looks super pretty! Putting newspaper down before this step can help control the mess. 🙂

Step 6: Lay flat to let dry – and enjoy your beautiful new Spring Flower artwork!

Shoo Flu Don’t Bother Me

We’re finally over the flu! Yay!!! This flu season has been brutal! I watch these people on the news who are being hospitalized and it breaks my heart! Being a mom of 2 toddlers means lots of preschool germs, which includes the flu. We went through a 3 week period where my daughter had the stomach flu, followed by my son, and then Dan and I. Then my daughter got sick with a fever and full blow influenza (I was scared), and lastly a double ear infection. My poor baby girl got it all! Through the mess and stress I was monitoring the kids temperatures and fluid intake. I did not want them to get dehydrated which can lead to much more serious problems!

I’m very lucky that my kids love water. We are a juice free house, meaning my kids drink water all day long and milk with meals. When my kids get sick, I always try to up their electrolytes. There are some fantastic freezer pops that work pretty well, depending on the age of the child. My daughter is 2, so she gets impatient when eating freezer pops and feels like they are too cold. On the other hand, my 4 year old son LOVES them! Enter Liquid IV. If you haven’t heard of it before, it is a Non-GMO electrolyte drink mix that hydrates 2-3 times faster than water alone. It has no preservatives, no artificial sweeteners, no artificial flavors, and no artificial colors. The Acai berry and Lemon Lime flavors are popular with all ages. It is a hassle-free way to give you and your family the electrolytes, vitamin C, B3, B5, B6, and B12 needed to stay energized. I’m so happy I had this on hand to help keep my family hydrated through this flu!

Liquid IV was a big help through this icky flu mess. When Sofia’s fever was at its highest, she was taking tiny sips of water and was very grumpy because she felt so miserable. I was really concerned about her water intake. Her tiny sips were not enough to keep her hydrated. I mixed Liquid IV with 16 ounces of filtered water in a large water bottle and shook it up until it was mixed well. I poured some into her sippy cup and let her taste it. She was happy and so was I. We used the Acai Berry which was fruity and appealing – it was a special treat for her being that we don’t give the kids juice. She still took small sips but I knew that she was getting way more electrolytes with the Liquid IV than without it. 

I did bring her to the pediatrician and was told to keep doing what I was doing and to keep an eye on her wet diapers to help me gauge how hydrated she was. Her fever broke, she started to drink more water on her own, and she is finally on the mend. I was a mess and her doctor was keeping a close eye on her as well. It was great to have some tools in my toolbox like liquid IV to help me get through it all! For more info on Liquid IV – head to their website at liquid-iv.com or click HERE.

Sugar Cookie Hearts

Who doesn’t love a sweet treat for Valentines Day? These sugar cookies are fun to make and even more fun to eat! I’ve shared a simple sugar cookie recipe below – but you can easily purchase heart shaped cookies from the bakery section of your grocery store and decorate those! Talk about a bake free – super delicious – family friendly activity! Keep scrolling for some photos of Sofia as my decorating helper, and the recipe! Enjoy! XOXO

Ingredients

  • 2 Cups Butter
  • 2 Cups Sugar
  • 2 Large Eggs
  • 2 Teaspoons Vanilla Extract
  • 4 Teaspoons Baking Powder
  • 5 1/2 Cups Flour 
  • Heart shaped cookie cutters
  • A variety of sprinkles
  • White frosting 
  • Red, pink and black decorating frosting/gel (for writing & drawing fine lines)
  • Any other yummy treats you want to decorate your cookies with

Instructions

  1. In a mixer, cream the butter and sugar.
  2. Add the eggs and vanilla.
  3. Mix all dry ingredients in a separate bowl and add slowly to the butter mixture until fully incorporated. Do not over mix.
  4. Roll out on a lightly floured board to desired thickness. I’ve used powdered sugar to dust my board instead of flour and it worked well. Worth a try!
  5. Cut out your hearts and place on baking sheets with parchment paper.
  6. Bake at 400 degrees F for 7- 10 minutes.
  7. Keep an eye on them so they don’t over bake. They should be light in color with a little light browning on the edges. 
  8. Let the cookies fully cool on racks so the bottoms don’t continue to cook on the pan.
  9. Use white frosting (I used store bought) to smoothly top the cookies. A butter knife works well to smooth it on. 
  10. DECORATE to your “hearts” content! 🙂 
  11. Share with those you love! XOXO